Author Archive for HN Admin

Becoming a Church Worth Growing Up In

by Grady D. King, D. Min   I can say with confidence that Jesus loves the little children. You probably want to start singing the song, don’t you?  Yet, some churches could post signs, “Adults Only.” I remember in the church of my childhood that it did feel that church was for “Big People,” particularly […]

Creating Intergenerational Ministry Moments

by Kaya Coleman   At Sugar Grove Church of Christ, creating intentional intergenerational ministry moments is a core part of our church culture. From family-style worship on Sunday mornings to community kickball on warm summer evenings, we want every generation to know they belong and have something valuable to offer within the body of Christ. […]

What Gen Z Is Asking of the Church

by Kerri Smilie   It hit me at Panera. I was having lunch with one of our small group leaders, checking in on how things were going with the women in her group. “I love leading my group, and now that I’m a bit older than the girls, I feel even more confident. I mean, […]

When the Next Generation Speaks, Will We Listen?

by Rachel Collins   Every generation, it seems, feels the younger generation is [you fill in the blank.] Whiny? Annoying? Entitled? Clueless? The BBC put this article out several years ago that humorously cited this phenomenon dating back several generations. It’s easy to feel defensive when we hear their complaints. It sometimes feels like an […]

Listening, a Skill Worth Pursuing

by Steven Carrizal The pastoral role of church leaders is a calling that puts us on holy ground as we are invited into a space of vulnerability. It is also a role for which it is easy to continually feel ill-equipped no matter how much training or experience a leader has in such situations. From […]

Listening as Leadership: How Empathy Builds Trust and Unity

by Jon Anderson   One of my first clients, while doing my internship for my graduate degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, was a guy whose wife had left him for another man. His response was to spend every free moment from work, night and day, stalking her. This went on for several weeks so […]

Listening to God: Recovering the Discipline of Spiritual Attention

by Jay Jarboe   “Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening” 1 Samuel 3:10 I am finishing the third sabbatical of my 44 years in ministry. I requested my first one in a previous ministry. I knew I was tired, doubted my purpose, and questioned my effectiveness in ministry. Those three months gave me time […]

Hearing the Voices in the Room — and the Ones You Might Be Missing

by Kaley Ihfe   When my large family gathers at my parents’ house, we talk loudly, often interrupting one another. A few don’t insert themselves into the noise; instead, they wait until someone asks them about their lives. If we never ask, we never hear their perspectives or find out how they are doing.  Within […]

Leading Worship from a Posture of Presence, Not Performance

by Shawna Um   Worship leadership can easily become centered on what is visible: the songs we choose, the quality of the music, the transitions, the preparation, and the hope that everything will come together smoothly. While some level of excellence, quality, and preparation matters, they are not the heart of worship. Worship is an […]

How Consistent Liturgical Rhythms Strengthen Your Church

by George Welty   I grew up in the Churches of Christ, with multiple generations of family on both sides planted firmly in that world. So, when I eventually found myself serving as a consultant in the Episcopal Church, it was not exactly the kind of plot twist anyone from my childhood could have predicted. […]

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